PAIRS research-validated, evidence-based intensive skills training for couples and singles in any stage of relationship. PAIRS Essentials is a 9 Hour Curriculum: Essential tool box for enhanced communication, empathy, problem solving, and emotional connection delivered over three intensive weekly sessions: the Heart of Intimacy, Constructive Conflict, Emotional Literacy. Discover the essential skills that have helped tens of thousands create and sustain successful relationships that are an ongoing source of love, pleasure, and happiness.
This curriculum may be used as a resource by individuals or as a teaching aid by licensed PAIRS professionals only.*Please indicate order purpose or use in the space below quantity.
Order Notes for PAIRS Instructors: If you are using or intend on using this curriculum as a teaching aid, please indicate the date of your upcoming class or event, class location, and the full name of the instructor/s teaching this class. This information should be entered below the quantity specification in the typing space provided. Your order may include Wallet Cards, Electronic PAIRS Essentials Love Notes, and Client Satisfaction Survey, upon request.
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Gordon’s acclaimed original list in booklet form of those assumptions, knots and double binds that are specific to intimate relationships. She pinpoints the beliefs underlying the assumptions and identifies a possible resolution for each one. Includes a Dialogue Guide and recommendations for resolving specific issues. Contains original, thoughtful and humorously illustrative graphics.
Product Description The PAIRS course acts as a kind of bridge between marriage education and therapy, working both with couples in healthy relationships hoping to improve intimacy and with distressed couples trying to save their marriage. Building Intimate Relationships is an edited work with contributions from the creator of the PAIRS program and the most experienced PAIRS leaders. It describes the elements of the PAIRS course and discusses the application of the theories and techniques taught in the PAIRS program. Chapters include discussions of intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, "emotional literacy", sensuality and sexuality, spirituality, and gender issues.
Building Intimate Relationships describes the elements of the PAIRS course and discusses the application of the theories and techniques taught in the PAIRS program. This item is available for checkout at amazon.com. This is the direct link:
This event is co-sponsored by R. Cassidy Seminars for the purpose of providing continuing education credits.
PAIRS Level One Certification Training may qualify for 32 hours of continuing education credit for psychologists, social workers, counselors, and marriage and family therapists. Participants wishing to receive credits must pay a separate fee of $75 and adhere to the following requirements:
Satisfactory Completion
Participants must have paid tuition fee, signed in, attended the entire seminar, completed an evaluation, and signed out in order to receive a certificate. Failure to sign in or out will result in forfeiture of credit for the entire course. No exceptions will be made. Partial credit is not available.
Psychologists
R. Cassidy Seminars is approved by the American Psychological Association (APA) to offer continuing education for psychologists. R. Cassidy Seminars maintains responsibility for this program. 32 CE hours
Social Workers
R. Cassidy Seminars, ACE provider #1082 is approved as a provider for social work continuing education by the Association of Social Work Boards (ASWB) www.aswb.org, through the Approved Continuing Education (ACE) Program. Approval Period: April 15, 2009-April 15, 2012. R. Cassidy Seminars maintains responsibility for the program. Social workers should contact their regulatory board to determine course approval. Social workers will receive 32 continuing education (clinical) clock hours in participating in this course.
CA: Course meets the qualifications for (32) hours of continuing education credit for MFTs and/or LCSWs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences, Provider #PCE418.
Counselors
R. Cassidy Seminars is recognized by the National Board for Certified Counselors to offer continuing education for certified counselors. We adhere to NBCC continuing education guidelines. Provider #6375. (32) hours.
Marriage and Family Therapists
See approval for Counselors above.
CA: Course meets the qualifications for (32) hours of continuing education credit for MFTs and/or LCSWs as required by the California Board of Behavioral Sciences, Provider #PCE418.
Disability Access - If you require ADA accommodations please contact our office 10 days or more before the event. We cannot ensure accommodations without adequate prior notification.
Please Note: Licensing Boards change regulations often and while we attempt to stay abreast of their most recent changes, if you have questions or concerns about this course meeting your specific board’s approval, we recommend you contact your board directly to obtain a ruling.
For further information, e-mail Lauren DelGandio or call (954) 703-4533 x802.
El costo de inscripción cubre las 12 horas de clase por cada participante. Esta tarifa incluye los materiales del curso, comiday cuidado de niños limitadoy sujeto a solicitud previa. Las clases se llevan a cabo en grupos privados, con breves conferencias seguidas por un fuerte énfasis en el uso de herramientas prácticas y fáciles de usar, útiles para construir relaciones a través de ejercicios interactivos.
Esenciales PAIRS proporciona una caja de herramientaspara mejorar la comunicación, laempatía, resolver problemas, y mejorar la conexión emocional, y es enseñado en cuatro sesiones intensivas semanalmente.Descubra las habilidades esenciales que han ayudado a decenas de miles de personas a crear y mantener relaciones con éxito, que son una fuente continua de amor, placer y felicidad.
La clase se lleva a cabo por cuatro domingos consecutivos de 5:30 a 9:30 pm en el Scheinberg Family YMCA de Weston, FL. Para las fechas de inicio y más información revise el calendario PAIRS en línea en http://consumer.pairs.com, llame al número gratis (866) 388-5683, o envíe un correo electrónico a info@pairs.com.
Tenga en cuenta: La registración y el papeleo de laclase se completan por separado del pago. Si usted está pagando el costo de la clase y no esta aún registrado, por favor vaya a nuestra página de registro para completar el procesoen http://www.pairs.com/ePAIRS.
Si ya completó el registro de la clase y el papeleo y está pagando su costo de inscripción en este momento, gracias, su proceso de registro ahora está completo.
PAIRS research-validated, evidence-based intensive skills training for couples and singles in any stage of relationship.
As you will discover over the course of your personal participation, PAIRS is a carefully-crafted, integrative, highly experiential approach that begins with an understanding of emotions in ourselves and others and leads to development of emotional literacy in participants of all ages. In the PAIRS FOR OUR FUTURE/ FOR OUR FAMILY program, you will develop knowledge, new understandings and the ability to use practical skills that offer you a tool chest for a lifetime of opportunities to create and sustain profound relationships with those you love.
PAIRS Essentials is a 9 Hour Curriculum: Essential tool box for enhanced communication, empathy, problem solving, and emotional connection delivered over three intensive weekly sessions: the Heart of Intimacy, Constructive Conflict, Emotional Literacy. Discover the essential skills that have helped tens of thousands create and sustain successful relationships that are an ongoing source of love, pleasure, and happiness.
This curriculum may be used as a resource by individuals or as a teaching aid by licensed PAIRS professionals only.*Please indicate order purpose or use in the space below quantity.
Order Notes for PAIRS Instructors: If you are using or intend on using this curriculum as a teaching aid, please indicate the date of your upcoming class or event, class location, and the full name of the instructor/s teaching this class. This information should be entered below the quantity specification in the typing space provided. Your order may include Wallet Cards, Electronic PAIRS Essentials Love Notes, and Client Satisfaction Survey, upon request.
Order Notes for NON-PAIRS Instructors: If you are using or intend on using this curriculum as a resource material and do not intend on using it as a teaching aid, please indicate “individual use” below (below the quantity specification line) in the typing space provided.
(Nine-Hour Premarital and Marriage Education Curriculum, 2008). Certified PAIRS trainer provides certification training and technical assistance for individuals interested in becoming certified PAIRS instructors. Includes 20 Hours of online training, electronic versions of instructor and participant handbooks, ethical standards, peer review, and related supplementary materials.
The fee for online training is $750 per person, inclusive of electronic material costs, online access to classroom PowerPoint, training videos, supplemental materials, and updates, listing on PAIRS National Directory and National Calendar of Events for one year and first year licensing fee.
Please note: Paying this fee does not replace webinar registration. If you haven't already registered, please link to the PAIRS Online Calendar to view upcoming training date and complete your registration. Thank you.
If your license with PAIRS expired more than two years ago, you are invited to attend an online refresher training designed specifically for instructors previously trained in PAIRS seeking to renew licensing following a lapse of 24 months or more.
In this ten-hour webinar, a certified PAIRS Trainer or Training Assistant will provide a detailed review of PAIRS' newest curricula and refinements, licensing and ethical standards requirements, and updates on research, quality management, recruitment and marketing, including one hour of individual mentoring and electronic versions of instructor and participant handbooks, ethical standards, and related supplementary materials.
Tuition to participate in the webinar is $450, which includes the cost of your license renewal for one year. Following completion of the webinar, you'll receive online access to classroom PowerPoint, supplemental materials, and updates, listing on PAIRS National Directory and National Calendar of Events for one year.
Please note: Paying this fee does not replace webinar registration. If you haven't already registered, please link to the PAIRS Online Calendar to complete your registration. Thank you.
El Manual de Acuerdos de PAIRS ha sido diseñado para ayudar a reforzar las habilidades aprendidas en las clases de PAIRS. También es muy bueno como una primera introducción a PAIRS. El manual de Acuerdos motiva al participante a reflexionar en sus valores personales y sus metas, le guía a poner sobre el papel una visión para su vida, su familia y el matrimonio y a la vez presenta al participante varias de las herramientas de PAIRS.
El Manual de Acuerdos de PAIRS ha sido diseñado para ayudar a reforzar las habilidades aprendidas en las clases de PAIRS. También es muy bueno como una primera introducción a PAIRS. El manual de Acuerdos motiva al participante a reflexionar en sus valores personales y sus metas, le guía a poner sobre el papel una visión para su vida, su familia y el matrimonio y a la vez presenta al participante varias de las herramientas de PAIRS.
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Sculpt Your Personal Relationship Road Map with these Conversations that Matter
Powerful tools for sculpting your personal relationship road map to wishes, hopes and dreams come true. Reinforces key exercises from PAIRS Essentials in a guided journey through personal goals and ambitions for love and life. Includes dozens of conversations that matter about Work, Time, Money, Health, Fun & Recreation, Friends & Relatives, Spirituality & Growth, Home & Housework, Death & Dying, Sexual Intimacy, Marriage/Commitment, and Children.
Whether this is a chance to reinforce and supplement your PAIRS experience or a beginning to your journey to intimacy, the Contracting Workbook will become a lifelong companion to update, revisit and share for years to come.
Powerful Relationship Building Tools
LOVE BANK. Learn to build a positive balance in your relationship Love Bank through regular deposits that let others know they’re important and cared about.
DAILY TEMPERATURE READING. One of the most important PAIRS tools for regularly watering the garden of your relationship by setting aside time free of distractions (15 - 20 minutes) on a regular basis to focus on each other and take turns confiding: (1) Appreciations (sincere and specific -- create a habit of acknowledging others and expressing gratitude), (2) New Information (what’s happening in your life? what’s on your mind?), (3) Puzzles (anything you’re wondering about), (4) Concerns with Recommendations (focus on the behavior not the person, include how you feel, and ask clearly for what you want instead), and (5) Wishes, Hopes, Dreams (for today, this week, this lifetime, or anywhere in between).
TALKING TIPS. Ten steps for exploring different dimensions of a concern or complaint. Can be done by yourself or to confide in your partner. When used for confiding, partner’s role is to listen attentively to each sentence stem and repeat back with empathy what was expressed without judging, criticizing, adding anything, or reacting.
EMPTYING THE EMOTIONAL JUG. Make room for positive emotions by regularly exercising -- with permission -- feelings such as anger, sadness, worry and fear with empathy and encouragement from your partner. Being able to listen with empathy without trying to fix, contradict, or judge emotions expressed by another person is a powerful process for deepening empathy and expanding opportunities for love and joy.
POWERGRAM. Head off power struggles before they begin by agreeing what decisions require agreement or discussion and which ones can be made independently. A key step to identify issues requiring greater attention and discussion.
JOURNALING. Reflect on your goals, values, and ambitions and create a journal that can be shared and revisited as you create a road map to dreams come true.
Sculpt Your Personal Relationship Road Map with these Conversations that Matter
Powerful tools for sculpting your personal relationship road map to wishes, hopes and dreams come true. Reinforces key exercises from PAIRS Essentials in a guided journey through personal goals and ambitions for love and life. Includes dozens of conversations that matter about Work, Time, Money, Health, Fun & Recreation, Friends & Relatives, Spirituality & Growth, Home & Housework, Death & Dying, Sexual Intimacy, Marriage/Commitment, and Children.
Whether this is a chance to reinforce and supplement your PAIRS experience or a beginning to your journey to intimacy, the Contracting Workbook will become a lifelong companion to update, revisit and share for years to come.
Powerful Relationship Building Tools
LOVE BANK. Learn to build a positive balance in your relationship Love Bank through regular deposits that let others know they’re important and cared about. Become comfortable confiding what makes you feel cared about and asking others to let you know. Love has the best chance of thriving in relationships in which we’re a pleasure to each other.
DAILY TEMPERATURE READING. One of the most important PAIRS tools for regularly watering the garden of your relationship by setting aside time free of distractions (15 - 20 minutes) on a regular basis to focus on each other and take turns confiding: (1) Appreciations (sincere and specific -- create a habit of acknowledging others and expressing gratitude), (2) New Information (what’s happening in your life? what’s on your mind?), (3) Puzzles (anything you’re wondering about), (4) Concerns with Recommendations (focus on the behavior not the person, include how you feel, and ask clearly for what you want instead), and (5) Wishes, Hopes, Dreams (for today, this week, this lifetime, or anywhere in between).
TALKING TIPS. Ten steps for exploring different dimensions of a concern or complaint. Can be done by yourself or to confide in your partner. When used for confiding, partner’s role is to listen attentively to each sentence stem and repeat back with empathy what was expressed without judging, criticizing, adding anything, or reacting. At the end of this confiding exercise, you can reverse roles, have a conversation about whatever was shared, or simply appreciate each other for sharing and listening.
EMPTYING THE EMOTIONAL JUG. Make room for positive emotions by regularly exercising -- with permission -- feelings such as anger, sadness, worry and fear with empathy and encouragement from your partner. One person asks questions according to the script and listens while the speaker searches inside for emotions that may be getting in the way of love, pleasure, and happiness. Always keep in mind that our emotional reactions are about us, not others. Being able to listen with empathy without trying to fix, contradict, or judge emotions expressed by another person is a powerful process for deepening empathy and expanding opportunities for love and joy.
POWERGRAM. Head off power struggles before they begin by agreeing what decisions require agreement or discussion and which ones can be made independently. Remember to revisit your Powergram regularly as circumstances change. A key step to identify issues requiring greater attention and discussion.
JOURNALING. Reflect on your goals, values, and ambitions and create a journal that can be shared and revisited as you create a road map to dreams come true.
PAIRS Essentials is a 9 Hour Curriculum: Essential tool box for enhanced communication, empathy, problem solving, and emotional connection delivered over three intensive weekly sessions: the Heart of Intimacy, Constructive Conflict, Emotional Literacy. Discover the essential skills that have helped tens of thousands create and sustain successful relationships that are an ongoing source of love, pleasure, and happiness.
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